Friday, November 04, 2005

coming out

funny huh? i mean i never thought that there was anything i needed to come out with, and i also thought that everyone who knows me more or less knows about my sexuality also, but today, after a singularly polemical msg in someone else's blog, suddenly blgosite parasite started clapping and said that you just made your first coming out speech.
hmm, ok, i suppose even that is a cause for celebration, and to mourn the passing away of days that were framed by the L word.
anyway, i am pretty intrigued by ugly girl's blog, and to think someone i find attractive and take a sufficient amount of interest in was actually making such a crucial transition and all of us were basically laughing about her nonchalance and etc....
but i do somehow feel funny when people think that they are going away from being a bisexual to defining themselves as a homosexual. please, i know and agree that gay is the identity, rather the only identity you can adopt to fight homophobia, and that there is no political charge or position available to bisexuality, atleast not yet, and that too because the slipping into the hetero norm is so easy for us.... but that doesnt mean that we would betray the cause does it necessarily?

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  3. God, don't you hate that shit! I was intriged by the picture on your profile, the black & white.

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  4. Darling, be who you are and quit worrying about labels. My favorite when asked, are you straight/gay/bisexual is to retort "Today I am" or "Today I'm not." You don't have to stick to one thing or another to make others comfortable. Make you happy and the rest will take care of itself.

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  5. now would like to talk in person to discuss my nonchalance? hmmmmm

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  6. Non-chalance is a lovely word and love to think of myself as non-chalant....oooooo lovely strut for non-chalant girl....but within me am so not. i think i am cool (still love that word more that chill or calm) and try to not let anything bother me, and heart-breaks are put down as life's experience, and you were right the other day, on the tank. i am/was attracted to polyester, but can only show it in this testosterony way.and of course dont want to get to know him any way.

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  7. Non-chalance is a lovely word and love to think of myself as non-chalant....oooooo lovely strut for non-chalant girl....but within me am so not. i think i am cool (still love that word more that chill or calm) and try to not let anything bother me, and heart-breaks are put down as life's experience, and you were right the other day, on the tank. i am/was attracted to polyester, but can only show it in this testosterony way.and of course dont want to get to know him any way.

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  8. read this http://damnables.blogspot.com, last entry

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  9. did you know i was attracted to you inthe first sem?

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